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Because I think it really comes down to this
msauvage purple
cleolinda
So today is Spirit Day. I don't really have any purple to wear, nor anyone to see me wearing it. Bullying has been pretty exhaustively discussed on the internets the last few weeks (although I liked this post the best); I don't really want to get into any of the hows and whys. I was mildly tormented throughout my entire grade-school career, not nothing near as bad as a lot of people had to endure. And the one thing I've figured out from that experience, for absolute sure, is that bullying is able to happen when good people do nothing.

So it doesn't really matter to me what "reason" bullies decide on when they start picking on you. They don't think you're the "right" gender, the right orientation, the right color, the right size; I don't really care. What I'm telling you now is that I'm not going to just stand here anymore. Everyone always says, "Well, it's none of my business." Bullying will be my business now. If I see someone giving you shit, I will tell them to cut that shit out, and we'll take it from there. And if you aren't the one being bullied, and you're standing next to me, I hope you'll back me up. I hope you would do the same for me.

That's my contribution today.



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she also wrote a lesser known book about *parents* and how adults carry the same patterns around of insider/outsider and how that plays out in parent-teacher groups and the like.

See my comment above - I met the "defiant girl's" mom, and as soon as I did, I knew exactly where her queen bee attitude came from. It's also why I loathe being a parent volunteer - all of that in/out, who's most popular stuff was annoying 20 years ago, and it's just as annoying now. Except now, I can avoid some of those people. Or snark on them.

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