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Because I think it really comes down to this
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cleolinda
So today is Spirit Day. I don't really have any purple to wear, nor anyone to see me wearing it. Bullying has been pretty exhaustively discussed on the internets the last few weeks (although I liked this post the best); I don't really want to get into any of the hows and whys. I was mildly tormented throughout my entire grade-school career, not nothing near as bad as a lot of people had to endure. And the one thing I've figured out from that experience, for absolute sure, is that bullying is able to happen when good people do nothing.

So it doesn't really matter to me what "reason" bullies decide on when they start picking on you. They don't think you're the "right" gender, the right orientation, the right color, the right size; I don't really care. What I'm telling you now is that I'm not going to just stand here anymore. Everyone always says, "Well, it's none of my business." Bullying will be my business now. If I see someone giving you shit, I will tell them to cut that shit out, and we'll take it from there. And if you aren't the one being bullied, and you're standing next to me, I hope you'll back me up. I hope you would do the same for me.

That's my contribution today.



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Exactly. But since we're in a society that likes to blame everything externally (McD's is responsible for my burns, not my lack of common sense!) it's an uphill battle to get people to grow the fuck up.

So having coffee that is just below boiling (they had set the heaters to the highest setting in violation of company policy and safety regs) in an improperly closed cup handed to you and having to get skin grafts due to burns that put you in the hospital when it pops open and spills is your own fault for not having enough sense to...what? Go to Wendy's instead?

The lie that was spread that that poor old woman sued because some tepid coffee spilled due to her own clumsiness makes me boil because it is so unfair that she had to go through so much pain only to have corporate spin successfully pin the blame on her for things that were out of her control. She only sued when McDonalds refused to cover any of her thousands of dollars of medical bills. They lost when it was documented that they had screwed up.

If we're going to have a tread about not blaming the victim then please try to not blame the victim in it.

My apologies, that wasn't a good example. You're right, a lot of the time we don't have all the facts, case in point. But it doesn't change the trend of litigiousness that has people sueing for things that aren't out of their control. I think people take the freedom of choice a bit far sometimes, in that they choose to believe they're not responsible for their actions.

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